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The Japan Business Mastery Podcast By Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan


Jan 14, 2021

Is speed expensive?  Constant hustling can lead to large and small errors of judgment.  We get so caught up in living 24/7 lifestyles that we start missing big pieces of the success puzzle.  People are the key to most businesses, but look at how we treat them.  We hit the panic button on a piece of work and make everyone jump through hoops to make sure the deadline is met.  We either end the sentence for the person we are speaking with or we cut them off and lunge in with our own preferred words and ideas.

 

Doing more, faster with less, we are constantly hustling to gain time.  The process becomes addictive.  The unrelenting daily email tsunami pushes us to gain extra time - all the time.  Our “contemplative self” is subsumed by the “mad rush us”, leaping around like a lunatic. 

 

Imagine if every interaction you have with others, where you are focused on hustling for your personal gain, came back to haunt you.  How would this change your behavior?  You would definitely take more care about the people around you, how you spoke with others and your general interactions with humanity.  You would be more considerate of others.

 

The slow food movement was a reaction to the impersonalisation of the food service industry.  We need a slow business movement to do the same thing in the way we run our businesses.  Contemplation is vaporizing as we constantly hustle.  Who we really are and what we actually stand for in our value system is getting bent out of shape. 

 

So if you find yourself hustling like mad, stop and ask yourself, what is the cost of all this speed? What am I actually doing with all of these contraband minutes?  Unleash the contemplative you instead and practice tuning yourself into other people.  This is the universal, timeless, key business success skill – our ability to do well in our engagement with others and we are in danger of losing it

 

Action Steps:

Develop more self awareness

Give people your 100% attention when you engage with them

Prioritise contemplation

Make haste slowly